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1、Stop Spoiling Your ChildrenD2.To study the article 3.Practice4.Summary4.Summary N H C EN H C E1.Ask a question返回返回The status of the spoilThe cause of the spoilThe influence of the spoilHow to change a fond?I often find so many toys in the childrens bedrooms (我经常发现孩子房间里的玩具太多我经常发现孩子房间里的玩具太多了）了）For exa
2、mple ,the following pictures or the phenomenon 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackspoilvt1.give a child everything they want, or let them do whatever they want, often with the result that they behave badly 溺爱溺爱;宠坏宠坏 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackovernightad. 1.for or during the night在夜里在夜里; 2.s
3、uddenly 突然间突然间;一下子一下子 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackassignvt.1.give money,equipment,etc,to.sb.to use给予给予分配分配 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacklavatoryn.a toilet 厕所厕所 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackkitn.a set of tools,equipment,etc.for a particular purpose 一套工具一套工具 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C E
4、N H C EBackbarelyad.only with great difficulty or effort; almost not 勉强地勉强地;几乎不几乎不 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackclosetn.a cupboard built into the wall of a room 壁橱壁橱Im making a point the tendency to give children too many toys and clothes the effects of thiscan actually be somewhat harmful to
5、children.It is harmful我的观点我的观点它的后果它的后果1. Excessive codding can cause children live on incompetence过分的溺爱会造成孩子生活上的无能过分的溺爱会造成孩子生活上的无能2. Now there are a lot of little emperors,the future will become the neets现在有很多小皇帝，将来就会成为现在有很多小皇帝，将来就会成为“啃老族啃老族” 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释key N H C EN H C EBacktendencyn.a strong
6、 chance that sth.will happen in a particular way 趋向趋向.倾向倾向 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释keykey N H C EN H C EBackgenerosityn.the quality of being generous 慷慨慷慨;大度大度 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释key N H C EN H C EBacksomewhatad.to some degree 稍微稍微;有些有些 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释key N H C EN H C EBackharmfula.causing or likely to cau
7、se harm 有害的有害的;造成损害造成损害Why do parents give their children too much? 父母亲为什么要给孩子买那么多东西？父母亲为什么要给孩子买那么多东西？In fact there are many resons 事实上，它是有很多原因的事实上，它是有很多原因的返回返回Para4 to para6Para4 to para6The reason of spoiling childrenOne fairly common reason Parents spend little time in comparing their children. H
8、aving a sense of guilt. Showing their children with material possessions Other reasons:One : For parents, there is something they had while growing up, along with those things they pined for but did not get.They want their children to have these things.Parents provide too much. Two :Children want to
9、ys. for fear that their children will infer they are unloved or will be made fun of if they dont obtain the same toys as their friends have.Parents are afraid to say no to their children. Three :Spoiling a child also happens when parents are unable to stand up their childrens unreasonable demands. s
10、aying no giving inA wave of regret for regret and resent having been so strict ment over having or ungenerous. Been 溺爱在中国流行的三大原因 1.首先是时代背景首先是时代背景改革前的几十年时间里，我们一直生活在物质生活条件非常匮乏的条件下，而且每个家庭一般都有多个兄弟姐妹，我们不仅分到的物质关爱很少，就算精神关爱也偏少,现在，我们身为父母了，却生活在一个物质条件相对非常丰盛的时期，父母经常感叹：“我那个年代，什么都没得到过，我一定不能让我的孩子再重复我那种生活。” 我们就一股脑地
11、、近乎失去理智地去溺爱孩子，其实是在通过孩子去实现我们过去未曾实现的愿望。2.其次是文化背景其次是文化背景荣伟玲说，我们的文化是，自爱有罪，应该爱别人。但是，人天性首先是自爱的，我们被教导不自爱，其实是违反了人性。在这种教导下，我们压抑了自爱，但被压抑的自爱需要表达出来，而孩子无疑是最适合的表达对象。这样一来，我们在爱孩子的时候，容易比那些尊重自爱文化中的人失去分寸。 3.隔代抚养隔代抚养 (一)责任感的缺位 ，(二)对死亡的恐惧.在隔代抚养中，做祖父辈的特别怕孙子辈的出什么安全问题，他们特别在意安全 (三)争宠.在以前的家庭中，因为孩子多，一般是孩子要竞争长辈的爱 (四)“内在的小孩”的投射
